Here’s How to Decide Who to Invite to Your Wedding

//Here’s How to Decide Who to Invite to Your Wedding
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Did you know that one of the top stresses of a wedding is the guest list?

Are you wondering who to invite to your wedding? Not to worry! In this guide, we’ll go over tips on how to decide who to invite to your wedding. 

Want to learn more? Keep reading to find out. 

Sit Down With Your Partner 

Before you ask your close family, chat with your fiancée. Make a dream list. Decide who in your immediate family you will invite.

Next, write down any close friends you want to ask. Starting with these two groups will help you cover the most important people. 

For fun, add old camp friends and your favorite cousins. Write down high school friends and favorite teachers. You can always trim this list later on. 

Think About Extended Family 

You need to decide where you’ll draw the line when it comes to extended family. Some people have massive families.

You might start to wonder if you need to invite second cousins and all your uncles and aunts. If you’re asking one aunt, you should send out an invite to the others as well. You don’t want to leave anyone out.

If you have a big extended family, start with those who you are closest to first. Work your way through the list of relatives. 

Ask for Advice From Both Families 

Now that you have invited both sides, you’ll want to provide each group some extra invites. Your parents might use these seats to invite their close friends.

Your future father-in-law may wish to ask his best friend. Your family will appreciate your thinking about them. 

Are You Inviting Kids?

Some people prefer only adults at their wedding. Spend time with your partner and decide what you both prefer. Are there a lot of children in your family? If so, you might want to allow kids at your wedding.

Otherwise, everyone will have to try and get a sitter for that evening. 

What Is Your Budget?

Knowing how much you hope to spend on your wedding will help you tailor your guest list. Consider sending out save the dates cards. This way, people can mark the date off in their calendar.

Some people will let you know ahead of time if they can’t make it. You can remove them from your list and invite someone else. 

Plus Ones and How to Decide Who to Invite to Your Wedding

On your invitation, make it clear if you’re accepting extra guests. If you’re inviting your best friend, you’ll want to let her bring her significant other.

If you can’t afford to have too many extras, make it clear on your invitation that the invite is for that person only.

Want to Learn More? 

We hope this article on how to decide who to invite to your wedding was helpful. Sit down with your fiancée and tailor a list together.

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By | 2019-09-26T11:55:08+02:00 September 26th, 2019|Lifestyle|

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